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Taking the “Daughter” out of Daughter-In-Law

It was just a few months after I married their middle son. It was a big family get together at their house with ALL their family there (mine live in another state). We were passing around the wedding pictures, and I heard my MIL talking about how much her youngest son’s girlfriend had helped her prepare the house and food for the day (I had asked if I could help with anything, and she said no). Note: said girlfriend and youngest son treated each other horribly and had broken up and gotten back together several times already.

While I was standing there, watching everyone look at the wedding pictures, MIL said, “I always wondered what it would be like to have a daughter.” Hello? Here I am, your daughter-in-law, pregnant with your granddaughter. I had to leave the room.

We’ve been married five years now, and she and FIL are still treating me like a grandchild machine who’s going to run out on their son eventually.

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5 responses »

  1. ugh, I hate the “grandchild machine” feeling. My PIL are not quite so obvious about it but every now and again I feel the overwhelming need to scream at them “hey, remember me, I am a person worthing knowing/ caring about too…”

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  2. That just totally SUCKS!

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  3. OMG, I would of died.

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  4. So I’m a lesbian – therefore married to a woman, right? My poor DW had to sit through a conversation with GMIL talking about how my cousin’s upcoming wedding was exciting because it would be her first granddaughter to get married.

    Ok. So GM doesn’t consider DW a granddaughter, but do you need to be so rude as to say it to her face?! Urg.

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  5. mike yuen ken paahana

    my mother hate my gf an said to never marry her so she no become her daughter in law

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