For the most part I like my SIL. She’s a little high strung sometimes but she usually means well. The woman can get so uptight and wrapped up in how things “should” be that it is irritating. Still, she doesn’t get on my nerves all that much.
A few weeks ago husband and I joined them on their vacation. They were vacationing near our home so we stayed with them in the rental house over the first weekend we were there. SIL has 2 kids. One of whom is an adorable little boy just under a year. As all little boys do, he loves to touch his boy parts during diaper changes. My nephews loved doing this as well, my sister let them and that was the end of it. No problems, no biggie. SIL however will not let little boy do this. When she changes him, she holds him in a bear-hug while BIL puts on the diaper or swimmer.
I thought this was insane. Poor little boy would be screaming the whole time. I wanted to say something, but I didn’t. I felt bad for little boy.